I have been told that I am a racist…

I have been told that I don’t care about others – other than myself…

I have been told that I am unforgiving…

I have been told that I am a liar…

I have been told that I am fear monger…

I have been told that I am a narcissist…

I have been told that I am unfair…

I have been called a conservative:

I bet that every one of you that are reading this has been called at least one of these in the past.  Let me put your mind at ease!  Because you were probably called this by the scariest of all words: a liberal!

Remember that you cannot fight lies with lies… You have to fight lies with the truth!  What is the most valuable Truth of all?  Let me remind you:

“For God so loved the World that He sent His only begotten Son; so that whomever, may believe in Him will not perish, but have everlasting life.”  John 3:16

The honest to goodness truth is that if you oppose someone who is black that does NOT make you a racist.  Now if you hate someone because of a person’s skin color that is a different reason altogether, and then you are a RACIST; however, just opposing another’s ideology does not make you a racist.  Because you do not like President Obama does not make you a racist.  Remember if you are white – so is he!  And if you are black – ooh ooh oh!  So is he!  Obama is a multi-racial president.  As most of us are multi-racial!  I am multi-racial, yet, I only claim one race does not change my blood type any more than if I weren’t.  People look at me and they see a white man, no one sees the Cherokee in my veins.  And no I am not offended by the Washington Redskins – well maybe the Washington part! However, that is neither here or there.  Remember people who have no truths resort to slinging mud!  You just need to sling truth!

So what if all you care about is yourself!  Does that make you a bad person – not necessarily.  BUT, I would go to venture and say that I bet you are not self-centered.  I bet that you have been called that because you oppose the Affordable Care Act; otherwise known as ObamaCare.  You should know that you are not alone – almost everyone that I associate with on a regular basis hates it too.  I am accused on a daily basis because I don’t my money that I work very hard for going to someone else’s healthy insurance.  I will give out of my own free will to those that that truly need help identified by God to where my money goes.  Besides I have my own family that I have to care for.  My family is more important to me than your family.  Sorry, it is the truth!  It should be your truth as well.  God, Family, Friends/Job (interchangeable), Extended Family, Country are my priorities.  When I was younger it was different, but my God, and my family have always been at the top of my priority lists!  Your family doesn’t come before mine – nor should my family come before yours!

Unforgiving.  Unforgiving.  What does that even mean?  Because I pay attention and I don’t want to repeat mistakes does that make me unforgiving?  I bet you burn your hand on a stove you don’t do it again anytime soon…  But you forgave that stove because it cooks your food.  Being held accountable, or holding people accountable does not make you unforgiving.  It makes you honest.  Being honest is what forgiveness is about.  Just because people make a mistake doesn’t mean you have to forget it.  The old adage, “forgive and forget,” always strike a nerve with me.  I will forgive, but I am not going to forget.  Forgetting allows for people to make the same mistake against you again.  I for one will never let the country forget who they are, and what they have done.  This does not make me unforgiving – this makes me smart.  People will fail if they forgive and forget, but they will thrive if they forgive and not let the same thing happen to them again.

Going back to the first paragraph will tell you exactly the same thing that I need to tell you in this paragraph, but it is so important that I will reemphasize it.  Telling the truth is important.  If you are called a liar for spewing facts, undisputed facts – that does not make you a liar.  Instead it makes you a target because liberals do not want to hear the truth.  Ideologies aside the truth is always hard to hear because as the cliché states: “The truth hurts.”  However, it doesn’t hurt as bad if you hear it first before a lie.  This government has done so much to destroy themselves from the inside-out that they have no way to back out.  The truth is out there, call them out on it.  The liberals cannot fight back with their own truth so they will call us a liar.  Just remember that is all in their head, and arguing with them makes us look weak!

Fear mongering is a way to get your way with fear.  Just because you are being realistic does not mean you are fear mongering, but if you are doing it in order to get your way then you are may be guilty of fear mongering.  Just remember that if you are telling the truth – it may be fearful to some – it is not fear mongering if you are not trying to get your way and only your way.

I may be a narcissist.  I just may be…  However, I have the ability to see that what I do is flawed.   Just like what everyone else in this world as the option to doing. I have the ability to be a smartass and be proud of it!  That is the glory of the 1st Amendment.  Just as I may be a narcissist; I am concluding that you want to be reading this; therefore, you have the right to read everything that I have said, and/or read nothing I write!  Because I know people care what others think is the reason I know that you are going to be reading my post!

What does it mean to be fair?  Is life fair?  I don’t think life is fair!  I think that life is as fair as you want to make it.  I believe that if you just sit back and make comparisons to the 1%’s in this world that this will not be a way to answer your fairness.  The truth of the world is that it is not fair, and you have to be proactive and figure out ways to be fair to yourself!  You have to be able to take life by the horns and drag it down to you!  You have to be in charge of your own destiny.  Only you can get yourself out of a situation that you don’t want to be in referencing the movie Knights Tale: “Only you can change your stars.”  If you believe in yourself you can be better for yourself!  You can change your life!  You can make fairness not an option to talk about!

YES!!!!  All of these things are only part of what I hold dear to being a conservative!  I am CONSERVATIVE and I am not ashamed of saying it!  I love my country, my family, and above all: GOD!  This is what it means to be a conservative – I don’t care what political system you follow, and I don’t care if you are a liberal – you want me to see things your way talk to me out of truth – not emotion.   Because that is what I will talk to you out of!